Elucidating Questions

Someone just called me sex negative and I am between laughing and bemusement

The things I’ve written

Watched

And I absolutely encourage anyone who likes sex to go out and have it why not?

But because I’m tired of recent media often portraying sex scenes, copiously, and wish people would stop hiring just barely adult teenagers to play children who go at it on screen

How is that not pedophilia?

Please stop having people portraying minors have sex on screen

That’s it

Just stop it

I don’t care about the story or the art factor

Of naked teenagers

Fuck, seriously?

The art factor of naked teenagers

Just fucking say what you are, nonce

It’s pervasive

This need to sexualise children in our society

Down to putting toddlers in miniskirts

I’m not saying miniskirts are inherently sexy,

I’m saying, who saw a miniskirt on an adult and thought

Yeah, that’s appropriate to put on a baby

It’s not the clothing it’s the people who view the body wearing the clothing as an object

Not because it’s sexy but because a fucking baby can’t defend itself from an attacker and in the instance of children

There just have to be some no go zones

No way do I want to imply that wearing clothing that others find sexy is an invitation

I 100% want to imply that adults cannot be trusted, older children cannot be trusted

I was definitely molested by a friend’s brother while originally wearing pants

Don’t dress them in sacks but something that provides them with cover, though, at least

Obviously these types of terrible things happen regardless

Humans are involved

It’s hard to say don’t do this because there’s bad actors when there are also bad actors who will do it regardless

I’d rather children be kept in safety bubbles

Like, here’s the thing

An adult has a sense of style and puts on the outfit they wear

Young children are put into outfits

And adults full on saw outfits they think of as sexy and thought “yeah, my 2 year old should where this”

It just fucks with my head a bit

All this plastering of children everywhere in compromised positions

Plastering of barely adults everywhere in compromised positions

When I was young I thought I was so adult so that picture of Miley Cyrus posing naked that photographer took just made me think “she’s adult enough”

Because I totally was, right?

Now I’m an adult looking at these kids and all the adults seem fine with this

And I’m like

No wait they were fine with it the whole time

That’s why it was happening

If a couple of grown adults want to go at it on screen I can just twiddle my thumbs while they moan and groan like a bad soft core porn

Fine, whatever, go at it I guess “art“

But when the show tells me hey this is a 17-20 year old

Here they are having sex

Man why would I want to watch that?

Always “waiting until the actor/ress is legal”

It’s so just not something I’m interested in consuming or spending my life watching

I feel uncomfortable when I’m just watching a show and then suddenly there’s sex in general

It’s something I can obviously live with

By only watching safe anime

I just don’t understand why you’d want to

See it, make it,

Teens have sex

It’s a fact, but you don’t have to produce it for millions to watch

And why would you see something you thought was sexy and then put it on a child?

That can’t make their own fashion choices?

I’m highly bothered by this cultural ushering in of sexuality, coupled with subpar sexual education

Coupled with the apparent human need to do harm upon others smaller than you

You know what? Call me a prude

I am constantly terrified that more children will end up like me

Deeply confused, sexually abused, over sex

Because someone saw me as a sex object at 8.

Sex is a deeply traumatic subject to me, but I want others to explore sexuality

I just don’t think it belongs on TV and in movies.

Not the way it’s being portrayed